Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Unclutter my cluttered mind

Wow life has been crazy hectic

Not a single day passes by when I even has the time to laze around and said…boringnyaaaaa

:p

I am grateful

Till this very day, I have to plan my ‘lazy day’…like what I did last Saturday



I stayed at home..watching tv…playing with my gadgets…some housechores and I am as happy as I can be…


In the evening went to Telaga Air Waterfront …the view was so calming…watching people fishing…hearing the water splashing softly against the old-wooden sampan ….just my kind of relaxing-therapy




picture taken at Telaga Air Waterfront, Feb 12 2012



and later in the evening went to watch football match at the stadium….(turns out that match caused much chaos later…hah…even as a “kaki bangku” I can see how biased the referees are….)



agak memalukan la nangga org kedirik gaok kedak tok....p ney gaya...bukan football fans nang fanatik skit ka? huhu


…anyway it was a great fun….

… eat homemade beef-cheese burger later that night and as my ‘bed-time-story’, I watched Grey’s Anatomy….

(yup…I m still a hardcore fan of that sappy-tv-series)


picture stolen from "Greys Anatomy's Fan Page" on FB

And what they say is true…good things in life comes for free…(though getting to Telaga Air cost me some money for the fuel n such ... haha )…but still…the good things in life comes for free…the scenic view … the clean air … the happy feeling … it comes for free …

Appreciate what you have is more than enough to make you happy … look around you and accept things as positively as you can and you will be happy

Someone told me, “mun kitak faham sesuatu perkara, kitak akan tersenyum jak sentiasa”… eg. If you can understand why someone is so hot-tempered, you will simply smile when they start to lose their temper at you … cuz u understand that that is their weakness and you know that there is no point in arguing back with someone who already loose ½ of their rational-thinking …

I wanna be that person … the person who is calm and smile so sincere …their smile can bring happiness into someone else’s life…

JUM! ;)


Sunday, March 11, 2012

Today is March 10, 2012…a year ago, or to be exact, on March 11, 2011, an earthquake with the magnitude so high, it shook Japan to the core. Seconds later a tsunami came and wash away thousands of life in a blink of an eye.

Please spare a few second of our life tonight to appreciate every little thing that we have … our job, or money, our life… or worst … the life of the one that we love can be taken away … just like that…

Let us give a moment of silent to our brothers and sisters who are suffering tonight …

No matter who we are …

No matter who they are …


"appreciating UNIMAS mission and vision _ group 3 performance _ moment of silent in memory of Japan 2011 Tsunami"



Thursday, March 8, 2012

a year later

A year later

A year later…what have I learn?

So much…

Slowly I realized that I’ve learned so much more since the last couple of years than I ever did in my entire life before.

Unfortunately…it is nothing compared to everything else that I have yet to learn…to discover…

Remember how we tend to sigh when the rain fall?

We would say… “aie! Hujan hari!”… with disappointment in our voice…

Normally we failed to realize how blessed we are for the rain… not to mention the rainbow that comes after the rain…oh..and the silver lining before the rain itself!

Same goes with the troubles and challenges in our life.

Be grateful cuz it’s true what they said, “ada hikmahnya nanti”…

Keeps this in mind when you are being challenge by people surrounding you…by life…by yourself…

p/s: someone tweeted this Facebook becoming more a place for preacher-wannabes, critics ala-Simon Cowell, free-advertising & bragging egos. I'm reducing my visit.

As an untrained blogger…saye terase..haha….oh well… :P




X Y Z

When you do X,

I feel Y,

I wish you do Z instead....


When you barely call me, i feel sad and lonely. I wish you would call me more often.


When you go out with another girl behind my back, i feel betrayed. I wish you would be upfront and honest about it.


When you tell other colleague about my personal life, i feel ashamed. I wish you would understand and dont do it again.


When you eat cupcakes then tweet about it, i feel extreme jealousy. I wish I can join you next time....


Hihi... :p


My point is, try to use this as a guideline when trying to express your feelings.

It helps to keep you under control and it is easier to understand on the receiver's end.


;)



Source from emotional intelligent_daniel goleman.....


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Thursday, March 1, 2012

cari cari carilah pasangan hidup betul2 owh kawan....

Smile each time i hear the song....so true...our lifetime partner can either make us happy during our lifetime only or during our lifetime as well as akhirat....


Ko blom kawen!ape ko tau?


So desu ne


:p


On the same topic....wahai friends yg merupakan isteri...

Its not once or twice i heard how ur hubby tell others how blessed he is to have u in his life...

U have a husband n a baby and roof to shelter ur family n food to keep all from starving and the list goes on n on...

Bersyukur and please please please..jaga aib suami


Jaga aib suami

Jaga aib suami

Jaga aib suami


Now i truly understand why org tua said, jangan sesekali masuk urusan rumahtangga orang lain

Now i truly understand why the psychologist said communication is the key

Now i truly understand why ustazah remind us that the purest love of all is loving Allah


I heard this on the radio...

Try to please everybody n u will end up getting hated by everyone

Try to please your creator n others will love u more...


Dont forget to read *keindahan Islam*...it may seem the most fundamental thing but for me its an eye opener...we already know most of the thing the author mentioned in the book...but reading it again somehow give us a new perspective...


Bukan nak berkhutbah...tapi nak perbetulkan diri jua... ;)


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