Thursday, August 30, 2012

Raya Raya Raya and Weddings and More Wedding



Raya has been perfect mixture of family and friends
I know I said after that each raya but hey..it’s the truth
After raya, I have more than 3 weddings invitation…
Not to mention so many of my friends mendapat cahaya mata since last month….latest was few days ago, a healthy baby boy. Wishing you guys all the best…marriage and parenthood.
Where does that leave me? Here! Menumpang kebahagiaan kengkawan… ;)
Okay…I know I haven’t been to most of the weddings… I was too caught up doing something else during the weekend…I will just send my prayers…..once a married friend told me that if I didn’t go to my friend’s wedding, nobody will attend mine….quickly I added, “so you went to the weddings so that they will attend your second wedding is it?!”….he laughed his head off… :P
Oohhh….during one of my fabulous raya visits, the issue polygamy was raised by one of my friends. I don’t know why but they get the impression that I am against it. Haha…oh well…they get the impression that I am a feminist. Must be because of the questions shooting out of my mouth……
What’s the definition of being fair?
What does educated means?
And bla bla bla…
But just to share, I found something truly captivating and meaningful regarding polygamy, (and a whole lot more on women and their daily issues); Tafsir Wanita dalam Al-Quran, by Syeikh Mad Zaki Al-Barudi. You should be able to find it at MPH or any other bookstore. It’s simple, easy to understand and I find myself couldn’t stop reading it. The only downside of it was it was so heavy and thick…
On the other side of the world, 3 of my best friends are getting married this month and next month…wishing all the best to them… ;)
My heart and mind is screaming to settle down soon but nope…not gonna rush it. Gonna do it right this time.
Honestly, I haven’t been reading enough to share something more informative with you guys….haihhh….to much fun!!
Have a great day people! ;)
p/s: btw friends, we are supposed to ganti puasa before we can puasa sunat! ;) please confirmed this if you are not sure… ;)

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Happy Birthday Me.



 I love august particularly because of today. I know. I am that narcissist.

Today has been ok. Apart from the shocking sms I got early in the morning ( yup…shocking…xperlu bermusuh…p xperlu berkawan…lets go our separate ways)….apart from that, other sms/msgs has been nothing but warm and sweet. Like this soft gooey caramel that tasted so warm and just enough sweetness. I love my friends and thankfully they love me to. (again…I am that narcissist). Haha

My little sisters bought a variety of cake for me. Being a crazy-cake-lover, I am jumping up and down. I literally jump up and down as she tries to arrange the different type of cake into one round-piece of cake. There are even candles and all. That is truly sweet of her. ;)

I am 26 today. There are parts of me so grateful of who I am and where I am now and part of me yearning for more. But it’s good I still have that yearning. Meaning I still have some hope and dreams inside of me.

I am looking forward to next week…..Raya Raya Raya! ;)