Kerinduan

There must b a reason why we get along so well
Though we met not so long ago....felt like we've known each other for a lifetime
The vibe we send to each other is crazily synchronized (synchronize?! Iskk...xjumpa better word).....
I hope its d same way around
There is no way we can fake our chemistry attraction rite?
I m excited today cuz if everythin goes on smoothly,
The present from me will reach its destination
We love love love to eat..though we can be picky at times..
But i m sure, this present will make everyone happy!
Especially me....hehehe......(fiela over excited! Iskkkk....)

Cant wait to meet again! Although my heart breaks each time i left....but i promise....jika ada jodoh....i will return! ;)


P/s: i m single...stop saying i have a boyfriend! Start praying for me instead! :p

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AmOK

"When Gina and Bryan fought, he found himself becoming immediately rigid, as if he’s been injected with a paralytic. The arguments shot out of him like bullet points. He knew he was being absurd, but he was hostage to his own constricted fury.

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Researchers have a term for this state: diffuse physiological arousal, or DPA. It involves everything from an elevated heart rate to boosted cortisol level and increased amygdale activation. In other words, it prepares you for war. In this condition it’s difficult even to comb your hair in the morning, let alone conduct a nuanced conversation with someone on a touchy subject. Says John Gottman, Ph.D., a leading marriage researcher and author of The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family and Friendships, “You can probably say that when people get into DPA, they lose 30 IQ points.”

p/s: Workaholism has been called the best-dressed mental-health problem of the century. Research suggests that often the real reason workaholics push so hard is not to advance their careers or provide for their families but rather to dodge the even greater challenge of maintaining a relationship. And indeed, workaholics are 40 percent more likely to end up divorced, says Bryan Robinson, Ph.D., author of Chained to the Desk."

quoted from Women's health magazine ONLINE

peringatan buat diri...

Firman Allah Ta’ala:

ظَهَرَ الْفَسَادُ فِي الْبَرِّ وَالْبَحْرِ بِمَا كَسَبَتْ أَيْدِي النَّاسِ

“Telah berlaku kerosakan di darat dan di laut disebabkan karena perbuatan tangan manusia.” (QS. Ar-Rum: 41)

Sidang Jumaat yang dirahmati Allah

Rasulullah menjelaskan, tatkala ditanya oleh seorang sahabat, "Wahai Rasulullah, apakah itu ghibah?" Lalu jawab Baginda, "Menyebut sesuatu yang tidak disukai oleh saudaramu di belakangnya!" Kemudian Baginda ditanya lagi, "Bagaimana sekiranya apa yang disebutkan ltu benar?" jawab Baginda, "Kalau sekiranya apa yang disebutkan itu benar, maka itulah ghibah, tetapi jika sekiranya perkara itu tidak benar, maka engkau telah melakukan buhtan (pembohongan besar)."

(Hadis riwayat Muslim, Abu Daud dan At-Tarmizi).

Sidang Jumaat yang dirahmati Allah,

Hari ini umat Islam dihidangkan dengan berita-berita yang mengaibkan peribadi seseorang. Ia terpampang di dada-dada akhbar dan dijadikan berita muka hadapan. Umat Islam pula secara terbuka membicarakan berita-berita yang mengaibkan itu tanpa sedikitpun terdetik dihati bahawa apa yang diperkatakan mendatangkan dosa yang besar dan kemurkaan Allah SWT. Hadis yang dibacakan dengan jelas menegaskan bahawa yang menjadi soal bukan samada berita yang dihebah dan dihebohkan itu benar ataupun tidak. Peringatan penting dari hadis itu ialah perbuatan menghebah dan menyebarkan berita yang menjatuhkan maruah dan mengaibkan seseorang adalah dosa besar meskipun ianya benar. Kalaulah berita benar sekalipun sudah dihukum berdoasa apatah lagi jika berita yang dihebahkan itu cerita bohong maka dosanya jauh lebih besar lagi.

Sidang Jumaat yang dirahmati Allah

Kita diberi amaran yang sangat keras dari Allah SWT tentang membicarakan sesuatu yang tidak ada kepastian sebagaimana yang disampaikan oleh Rasulullah SAW

Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda yang bermaksud: "Seseorang hamba yang membicarakan sesuatu yang belum jelas baginya (hakikat dan akibatnya), akan dilempar ke neraka sejauh antara timur dan barat."

(Riwayat Muslim)

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Khutbah Jumaat, YDP UNIMAS

Saudara Muhammad Mus'ab Muzahar

22April 2011

Masjid UNIMAS

Xkan pernah cukup

Masa xkan pernah cukup
It has been months since i have d luxury of lazing around all day...or at least half a day
Then i realized my time is soooo limited cuz i sleep 7hours/day!
Need to stop this beauty-sleep of mine n start being mo productive
Dalam mengejar nikmat2 yg ada..i need to manage my time more wisely
I have yet to complete my reading...ssss!
I have trouble to concentrate what i m doing...i wud spend less than 10mins reading before my mind bugs me to do something else...eg housechores
Do u guys have any idea how much time n energy spend to keep a clean n orderly house?
Salute to all moms n housewives out there.....especially my mom!
I can no longer say i m bored....i can only say...ya ampun....ney pergi masa yg ada?
Its true...masa xkan menunggu kita
Dan setiap detik yg berlalu xkan pernah dapat dikembalikan
So....spend ur time wisely
& spend few minutes a day to tell d person u love/miss that u do love/miss them...eg ur parents...ur siblings...ur cousins...ur friends....poke them on fb...i believe they will smile even if its just a poke...(but spend less time on fb....get real people!)....

Hokey....mok mandi...perlu hanta my cousin ke airport...told u i dont have d luxury to laze around anymore....but i m lovin it...keeps me occupied....physically n mentally! ;)

p/s: dont forget to smile at urself today...look into ur eyes n smile n tell urself how lucky u r to be who u r today...n how u will improve urself to be better...to b the best... :D

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Tingkatan Puasa

Imam Abu Hamid al-Ghazali dalam bukunya Ihya al-'Ulumuddin telah membahagikan puasa itu kepada 3 tingkatan:

1. Puasanya orang awam (shaum al-'umum): menahan diri dari perkara-perkara yang membatalkan puasa seperti makan dan minum.
2. Puasanya orang khusus (shaum al-khusus): turut berpuasa dari panca indera dan seluruh badan dari segala bentuk dosa.
3. Puasanya orang istimewa, super khusus (shaum al-khawasi al-khawas): turut berpuasa 'hati nurani', iaitu tidak memikirkan sangat soal keduniaan

Pembahagian di atas memberikan umat Islam ruang untuk berfikir dan menelaah tingkat manakah mereka berada.

quoted from : ibadat puasa