i've realized that the higher my expectation is, the more frustrated i will be.
more often than not, i expect too much and its not helping the relationship at all. when i put my expectation down, things happen more naturally and i m much more happy with it.
in other words, when we stop expecting, if something happen, we will be pleasantly surprised...but if nothing happen, then we wont feel anything,cuz we are not expecting it...not feeling anything is better than being frustrated or worst hurt...
but being me, sometimes i cant help being hopeful and expect things to happen...i expect others to act in one way or another...
however i m glad that when they didnt meet my expectation, i m able to brush it off and simply said its because all of us are different. thus we see things differently...and handle them differently...janganla semuanya nak di ambil hati..janganlah semuanya nak makan hati....we would be a very miserable person then...