Thursday, August 30, 2012

Raya Raya Raya and Weddings and More Wedding



Raya has been perfect mixture of family and friends
I know I said after that each raya but hey..it’s the truth
After raya, I have more than 3 weddings invitation…
Not to mention so many of my friends mendapat cahaya mata since last month….latest was few days ago, a healthy baby boy. Wishing you guys all the best…marriage and parenthood.
Where does that leave me? Here! Menumpang kebahagiaan kengkawan… ;)
Okay…I know I haven’t been to most of the weddings… I was too caught up doing something else during the weekend…I will just send my prayers…..once a married friend told me that if I didn’t go to my friend’s wedding, nobody will attend mine….quickly I added, “so you went to the weddings so that they will attend your second wedding is it?!”….he laughed his head off… :P
Oohhh….during one of my fabulous raya visits, the issue polygamy was raised by one of my friends. I don’t know why but they get the impression that I am against it. Haha…oh well…they get the impression that I am a feminist. Must be because of the questions shooting out of my mouth……
What’s the definition of being fair?
What does educated means?
And bla bla bla…
But just to share, I found something truly captivating and meaningful regarding polygamy, (and a whole lot more on women and their daily issues); Tafsir Wanita dalam Al-Quran, by Syeikh Mad Zaki Al-Barudi. You should be able to find it at MPH or any other bookstore. It’s simple, easy to understand and I find myself couldn’t stop reading it. The only downside of it was it was so heavy and thick…
On the other side of the world, 3 of my best friends are getting married this month and next month…wishing all the best to them… ;)
My heart and mind is screaming to settle down soon but nope…not gonna rush it. Gonna do it right this time.
Honestly, I haven’t been reading enough to share something more informative with you guys….haihhh….to much fun!!
Have a great day people! ;)
p/s: btw friends, we are supposed to ganti puasa before we can puasa sunat! ;) please confirmed this if you are not sure… ;)